So you are dating this guy and having
fun while you are it. He is everything you have ever wished for and you
two are the perfect match made in Heaven. You care about him so much and
he is all yours, anyone who tries to get too close has to contend with
you but have you ever asked yourself why you are so in love with him?
This
piece is meant to get you thinking. You may belong to the school of
thought that claims you should not have a reason for loving a person. If
that is the case, you should be dating everybody you meet then. But
there is a reason you have chosen to be committed to this particular
person. Ever asked yourself what it is?
Some
ladies are more in love with the idea of love itself than with the
person they are dating. So any guy that comes close to their idea of
love, they jump at. That he does nice things for you, he is an absolute
gentleman and he is romantic are not reasons to commit to a guy.
For
others, it is the money. Sad, but true. Too many ladies love their men
for the money! In their defense, they claim it is the economic
recession’s fault. Yet, there are ladies who love him because he
provides something they have been looking for all their lives; something
like security (they feel if he’s a good guy then why not just settle
for him?) or attention.
Here’s
the gospel to save you: don’t just date him because he is available or
he loves you. Don’t your own feelings count? The days that he is not Mr.
Perfect, will you still love him?
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