Please judge this case. Last week Thursday my sister in-law visited me and my wife from NYSC camp. I was shocked when I welcomed her because it was no ordinary visit. she came with a full 'ghana must go' bag. We greeted and I got to know that she escaped from camp due to the tough tasks in camp. My wife never told me her sister was coming to stay. We have lived amicably till yesterday.
My lil cousin that stays and helps us with chores was mandated by her to boil 2 big pots of water for her to bath. I scolded my cousin and told her why didn't she use the electric kettle so as to save gas which we just replaced with 6k. I now gave her a warning that whatever my inlaw wants that she should ask me 1st. I even got to know that my wife lied to me that her parents knew she left camp. My wife heard our conversation and started antagonizing me that why did I tell my cousin to always ask me b4 she obeys her sister. she was shouting at the top of her voice even my inlaw could hear. This angered me and I shouted back and told her to leave the room. she continued shouting and even slept in the sitting room as I slept alone.
This afternoon while working on my computer for hours I came out of the room only to find out my sister in law has packed her things back to her NYSC camp without telling me but my wife knows....I am slatted to officially do my white wedding next saturday. I just feel down because we quarrel too much and my wife talks in a domineering way. I have warned her about it and I do not want to turn a woman beater. Any quarrel we have she tells her parents and siblings which make them not to be free with me and act cold towards me. pls advice me.
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