All the no-nonsense ladies in the
house will go like, “Eh? She dey craze? Didn’t she see me standing right
there? She get mind o!” But you know, some ladies are like hawks, they
circle round and round and wait for the perfect moment when the
mother-hen is not paying attention to snatch the little bird. Guys, I am
not saying you can’t look after yourselves and that you need your woman
to speak for you but do not underestimate the powers of a desperate
girl. Such girls can snatch boyfriends before you can say ‘Jack’.
Dear
ladies, if you smell such men-thirsty girls around, stay calm. Your
first instinct might be to be all over your man but that makes your man
feel stifled and sends off the vibe of an over-possessive control freak.
Be sure that she is really trying to pull off a stunt because
sometimes our instincts are in overdrive and we tend to act too
quickly.
Once
you have confirmed she is going for the kill, trust your man to be able
to deflect the advances then you bring on the support. Never try to
take charge. He is not a little child and if at this point of his life
he does not know how to ward off those kind of girls then he has to be
immature.
Simply
hang around him unobtrusively in a way that says ‘he’s mine; get yours’
in a classy way. Don’t embarrass yourself by stooping to her level or
trading words with her. Ignore her; it tells her that you don’t even
consider her as competition. Call your man something sweet and make him
pay attention to you, rather than her if she persists. Touch him
absent-mindedly in non-sexual ways. Crack a joke only you two get but be
careful not to overdo it else it becomes awkward.
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